The Art of Making Requests

I write for those women who do not speak, for those who do not have a voice because they were so terrified, because we are taught to respect fear more than ourselves. We’ve been taught that silence would save us, but it won’t. ~ Audrey Lorde

I’ve been told that being direct takes the mystery and fun out of the games people play in relationships.  You wouldn’t accept a job without fully understanding what you’re getting into, so why do you do that in your relationships? When do you get tired of playing games?

This conversation was recorded a few years ago after a workshop Tazima hosted on learning how to make requests and receiving them.

Unfortunately, I could not find the video to the slow blow job tutorial we mentioned.

Tazima Ayana Davis is a relationship coach specializing in sex, intimacy, and Orgasmic Meditation. Find out what she’s up to at

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About Melissa Danielle

I help high achieving women and coaches over 35 living with PCOS and perimenopause prepare their bodies, lives, and businesses for first-time motherhood.

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